My boyfriend wants me to use an anal toy on him, do alot of men like anal stimulation? My boyfriend and i have been talking about using some sex toys. He is interested in using something for himself for anal stimulation. He wants anal toys for him and me to use them on him. Is this normal to do? I'm a pretty open person an am willing to try but I dont want him to want his anal sex more than having sex with me. |
I would advise a prostate massager such as the rocks off naughty boy, it is for beginners and in no way resembles a penis.
For men their p-spot(male equivelant of the g-spot) is accessed via the anus, so you can imagine why they would want to try this. Let him try while he's using it get involved touch him, give him oral, just pleasure him, this well increase the intensity of the orgasm. This will make him feel like he needs you as well.
Get yourself a vibe or that so he can return the favour and work on incorporating this into your sex life if thats what you both want, I dont seriously think this will make him go off sex wth you thought
Kerry Mclaughlin |
Does anyone have any good Anal Toy Ideas? I'm open to anything. Please give me ideas for household items that can be used for anal sex/masturbation. I'll try anything so please let your fetishes roam. |
| bannanas and carrots with a glove or condom on it. dont push em in too far. also try sitting on your back with your legs by your head and use a mirror and look at your butthole it will be gapping and you can fitt bigger stuff in. also when you get a little looser go back to your finger but get a little rougher with it its awesome. |
What is the best material for an anal toy? I have a jelly bong. It has a realalistic look to it, but feels stiff while inside and doesn't feel all that good. |
| It seriously depends on what you like. Obviously you don't enjoy too much stiffness in your anal toys, so you'll want something softer. I tend to get frustrated at anal toys that are too soft and thus have difficulty going in, so I like something a little firmer. Usually jellies are pretty soft, though, so I wouldn't know quite what to recommend you that's softer than a jelly toy. |
What are the best objects to use to Use as an anal toy? I am 14 and I want to use something to stick up there.are their any items I could use. Baring in mind I can't buy a dildo |
You should optimally be using a sex toy specifically designed for anal sex. Because of the way the rectum is designed, it is very easy to "lose" objects inside of it. There is a disturbing number of emergency room visits from people who need to have medical assistance removing items lodged in their colons- sometimes by surgery, even.
You can help minimize this risk by choosing something with a flanged base- namely, something with a wide and big enough bottom so that the object can't get "sucked" up your bootie. You're looking for something like this:
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Also remember to sterilize anything you do use- your tush can harbor all sorts of bacteria. A wipe-down with a ten percent bleach solution will probably do the trick.
And of course, always use some sort of lubricant and try to choose something as smooth as possible- the less chance of tearing or injuring the delicate tissue lining your rectum.
Play safe and good luck finding something! |
Is it a good idea to use a raw egg as an anal sex toy? My girlfriend wanted me to put one in her but i didn't think it was such a good idea. Suggestions? |
| Nope. The egg shell could cause some serious abrasions if fractured and there's always the risk of salmonella poisoning which could lead to an embarrassing experience at the emergency room. |
Is there a specific kind of toy that is best for anal play? I was wanting to try something new/different.
I have a toy that I use vaginally but wondered if it would be best to have something specifically for anal play.
Obviously you don't want to use the same toy in both openings during the same session because of the infection risk from going back and forth.
I have tried a finger or two back there and that felt really good.
Any advice would be very helpful.
Thanks! |
Ideally you would wrap your toy with a condom and you really dont want to use the same toy in both openings.
Generally there are specialty toys that are tapered plug shapes or "Beeds" that have small balls on a string or part of a solid plastic chain. These are said to be nice.
Note: you need lots of lube for backdoor play. The liquid stuff does not work as well as the thicker, creamy stuff. Make sure to buy some "Elbow Grease" or "Boy Butter" or some of the other backdoor lube when you order your toy.
Condoms, Extra thick lube, and your toy.
Hope this helps. |
Whats a good homemade anal toy for men? whats a good homemade anal toy for men
im 17 and i want some ideas of anal toys :)
no food ideas please |
| How about a home made candle? P&P :-) |
Whats a good homemade anal toy for men? whats a good homemade anal toy for men
im 17 and i want some ideas of anal toys :)
no food ideas please |
Look around the house for items that could easily be inserted into your rectum (All with proper condom coverage): Highlighters, Brush Handles, Candles, Smaller Sturdier Dog Toys etc.
A more vigorous approach could be electric toothbrush handles, or those vibrating razor handles.
Be creative. Most things can be shoved up there.
(Just be sure that they won't either break, snap off, or if you get too into it could shove it too far and lose it.) |
Can you use an empty co2 bottle as an anal toy? Ok so I will wash it but use that and lotion as lube I am not gay I just want to try something new is this safe |
Perhaps you should start with something smaller? I'm assuming you're new to anal sex. If not then of course you can use whatever will fit best. If something hurts then that's an indication that you may be doing something wrong. In that case, slow down and rethink whatever you're doing or using.
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