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Help? My fiancée prefers Asian women? I'm White and Cherokee, he's Filipino. I'm hurt by this now because this is what keeps happening: He'll say I'm only pretty or cute but when he sees and Asian girl, he says that they're beautiful, sexy, gorgeous, etc. And all I get is... cute and pretty. He has admitted when we first started dating he prefers Asians, in fact, I'm the first girl he's dated that isn't Asian.
Even so, he does treat me pretty good. All his remarks hurt though, it's like I'm second best to him. A few months ago we were talking about going to Japan for our honeymoon. Because I know he prefers Asians, I said no. Then he asked why and explained. He just made me feel worse by being too descriptive. "No baby... some hot, petite, busty, tight little Asian chick would never steal me away from you." - I'm petite but he thinks I need to be stick-thin like many girls he's seen (I'm only 99lbs, I can't get much thinner and LIVE.), I was not blessed with my mother's boobs - I'm only an A Cup, I've already stated the types of compliments he gives, and I'm tight but not tight enough for him.
I have 0 self-esteem now. How do other girls deal with guys that don't prefer them? I will not leave him. We've been together for years, besides this issue, our relationship is completely fine. | Think of it this way, he is normally attracted to Asians, but he chose you! You must have really caught his eye.
My boyfriend was always fond of women with dark hair. Guess what I was a blonde. He never saw himself being attracted to a girl with lighter hair, I beat the odds.
If you are insecure, ask him why he went for you after you instead. Ask him what he finds attractive about you. He's with you, I'm sure he finds you beautiful. | Am I addicted to asian women? I only had one serious gf she was asian, but I notice that when I check a chick out if she's not asian I really dont pay much addition. I mean I can look at a busty white chick and be like ya she's o.k and I can she a asian chick with hardly any cleavage and im like damn she is hot. Hold it against me or not I get off to asian women when I watch porn, I mean i watch porn wit women to just to mix it up, but I think the asian ones are better. I think I got yellow fever. I need to stop being so pickin before I end up with not one. Any advice? | Well, why worry?
Trust me, when the right person comes into your life, you won't feel you're picky. Right now, you're just waiting for someone to rock your life and turn your world upside down.
Asians are after famous, why worry that you have 'good taste'? =x
Boobs and cleavage isn't everything anyway, it's just a part of an attraction for guys. You may be attracted to something else other than that, maybe the looks?
In conclusion, no, you're not addicted to asian woman, you're just lonely, I guess.
Cheer up man, go have some fun!!
Enjoy life to the fullest, dude..
All the best! *smiles* | Which races of women have big breasts and are still not fat? including mixed races (like white/asian)? also countries like 25% swedish, 25% mexican, 25% eskimo, 25% mongolian, etc. if that is simpler to say.
special request: which countries/race mix would make a short, busty, cute girl?
also, if you know for sure if any very beautiful girls come from any exotic places like native american, or a specific asian race, or something creative, please contribute!
thanks :3 | Italian ..Swedish..busty but not fat
Short busty cute ..Mexicans | My wife claims she doesn't like other women, but I know this 1- (After her being out of town for 2 wks)? 1 night (11pm) she came 2 bed all wet. Claimed she missed me, but hadn't said boo 2 me for almost 36hrs since she got home. (claimedwas tired). The next night claimed again that she had work to finish (Sun night) so after she came 2 check on me about 11 I pretended 2 b asleep. Then caught her looking at naked Asian women on the internet and playing self.
2- I got home b4 her on Tues and a female called from NY (where she was for 2 weeks). She hung up. I checked wife's calling card and found that she started calling this # on Wed of the 1st week. So I called the female and told her that wife told me everything. She told me that she was relieved because they were planning for her 2 come 2 town so the 2 of them could she what it was like. (She was White/blond and big rack, Wife is Japanese/nice size rack)
3- asked 2 use wife's computer that night and found racy letters that she had apparantly emailed out & web history 4 female sex pgs.
Blond busty f wants 2 test her. should I? | Wow dude. Sorry to hear it.
My wife and I will separated 2 months tomorrow. 2 weeks ago I found out that she had replied to a woman for woman personal ad and created one for herself.
She did this 4 days after we started marriage counseling to work through our small problems(I thought small problems) and while I was taking care of our son cause he was sick so she would be able to goto work.
That was when I knew we were not just separated anymore. The trust was completely gone. It's hot thinking of my wife with another woman cause my wife is really hot. But she is my wife and was seeking something else at a time when we were talking and trying to work out our differences and bring our family back together.
Now im ultimatly heart broken and working through the emotions of really losing my marriage, my wife(that I would have done anything for), my son, my hopes and dreams, etc etc. | Why white men say they like busty blondes then date slender asains? I don't get it.
They say they like big breasts and blond then date athletic bodied Asian women.
I am not trying to be rude, just trying to figure it out. Thanks | | they will take whatever is available at the time | Why do some indian men like white busty girls? iam a busty brunette ith very light paleish skin. iam a size medium in clothes soo i am not skinny but iam not fat either. asian guys consider me as fat tho because they like their women to be really small. i noticed every indian guy goes for me. i do not go for indian guys so i send a go away signal everytime but all of them go for me even when iam wearing my pj's to put the rubbish out with bedhair.
why do they all go for my look? | i supose cause they like
is it so bad then? | Hiring foreigners in Eastern Asian countries? I'm interested in being an ESL teacher in China, Korea or Japan (probably Japan) and I've read a few posts that getting jobs can be very "image-based." Someone said that they had trouble getting hired in Taiwan because she was older, black and a bigger sized woman. I've also read several posts that say "blonde, tall, busty, size 2, blue eyed Caucasian women" are hired more often for English teachers. Especially when a male is in charge of hiring. Is this true? Is predjudism against looks very common for foreigners (especially women) in Eastern Asia countries? Please post any info. Thanks. | | There may be some discrimination, but generally I think it is not happening very openly. Given the great demand for ESL teacher, I don't think whomever is responsible for hiring would discriminate based on looks or race. Teaching ESL seems to be a very rewarding experience, and I am personally considering a change of career and to teach in China next year. From what I heard from many friends who are teaching ESL in Asia, China and Korea are the favourite locations. Japan is an interesting country but the comment I get from friends who taught there is that making personal connections with Japanese is a little harder than with Chinese or Koreans who are more upfront and curious about foreigners and who will not hesitate to strike a conversation with an English-speaking foreigner. Perhaps Japanese are more reserved? True or not, I don't know. | Color, Culture, Black and White? I've been reading a lot of posts and articles and people spouting about how white women want to be black. And by a lot I mean in three days that I've searched gender and interracial relationships I've seen well over a couple dozen.
I'm a white girl, very white, half Russian, half Jewish. I am more than proud of my heritage. I don't tan (aside from a bit of warming in the sun by the pool because I like how it feels), I don't want to inject my already full lips, and I have a butt, and hips. I'm a curvy girl, so shove that argument up where the sun don't shine.
I have seen women black, white, Indian, Japanese, etc, that have been gorgeous and ones that are ugly as sin. White women tan, and black women straighten and highlight their hair, Indian women want to look lighter (because their culture has believed fair skin to be of higher class for centuries) as do several of the Asian cultures, African culture prizes beautiful dark, rich skin, and the Middle East like a very specific mid-tone. Why exactly are we making this all about skin color? Why is it that every time someone mentions color women attack each other?
I've read from many forums now that "black women age better, and are this and that, and that white women just want to be like them so we tan" and in response "that black women with their fake hair and nail..." etc.
Why don't we as women just stop fighting over who is better? Shouldn't we share and try to bring each other up, not down? We all have something beautiful, and while you should be proud of who you are, why can't we share? Why can't naturally light people show others how to make fair skin look good, and darker skinned cultures, share tips for tanning well, hair tips, etc? Why is it that we have to constantly attack each other, and put each other down?
Why is it that there are so many posts about "How no butt, thin-lipped, flat chested, skinny, white girls just need plastic surgery and to tan" and "black girls keep lightening their skin, and straightening their hair, and are jealous of white girls?" I refuse to believe any of it. We are all beautiful, and we all cross racial lines. There are curvy white girls, petite black girls, busty asians, etc.
Has anybody else noticed this trend lately? This attack? What is to be done? How do we start respecting each other rather than wallowing in ignorance? | Well, these are the kinds of questions that I like to see.
I don't feel that this is a trend. This has existed for a very long time.
Now, how do we stop the trend is the biggest question that you have. It'll have to be with you. And me. And the next and the next. You must be the one to set the example. I have to set an example, and I do, I have, and I will continue to do so. I date outside of my race. He's a European and I'm an American. I can't lie, I've asked myself why do white people tan. That's not a good look for everyone. The person I've seen with the best tan is Kelly Ripa. She just glows. But people overdo it sometimes. Then I ask myself why do Black women rely on weaves. The celebrities usually have the best product of weaves, but white women and other races use extensions, too.
Actually, some people are bald under their hair or have really long hair and don't like to do anything with it. I know this because I wash hair in a salon on the side. I've seen it all.
My views. Both my parents were in the Army, and they were stationed overseas. They have had the oppurtunity to see how others are. There is a family that my family has known for a long time, and the wife is German, she is like family to us. For the most part, color means very little to me. It's not really the way I was brought up, well, then again it is. My father has had problems with people being racist with him, but my mother went to a school where she had White friends. So it's nothing to her. I think that Black men definitly have a large hurdle to jump.
But people have to change their ways in order to diminish people's stereo types. You have to be who you are. And that's that. Peer pressure doesn't help. I didn't experience a lot peer though. I guess I was a loner growing up. I always did things on my own anyway; I didn't rely on what peope were doing next. Like the way I wear my hair is up to me. I straighten it with a flat iron or I wear it natural. I don't care if my edges aren't straight. My hair is clean. That's all that matters.
A lot problems just come from the way people were raised and just that individual's personality. Things just have such a long history. What I really want to say is things just have to change with people. I've been aorund women, and I'm not interested in looking at her from head to toe, like I'm trying to hit that or something. That's what females do, and it's so old. I'm bored with it. I act like I don't see them doing it or if I have to speak with a woman that does this, I flip it on her, and just be a nice person. Because she's not expecting it. She's expected me to show my as*s, too. Or try to be the flyyest woman in the room. I have a man, and if I didn't, I would be the same old me anyway. I'll probably never see them again anyway for me to even care. For the most part, guys don't come anywhere near a woman's beauty. Only a hand full of guys are aesthetically attractive. They don't keep up with themselves as nearly as much as women do.
For the record: I would love to meet someone like you out on the street. You come off as down to earth. Like, you think about things and you would like to see change for the better when it comes to people in social situations like this. Well, I wish I could write more but......1 | Black and White! and then some.... anyone know? I've been reading a lot of posts and articles and people spouting about how white women want to be black. And by a lot I mean in three days that I've searched gender and interracial relationships I've seen well over a couple dozen.
I'm a white girl, very white, half Russian, half Jewish. I am more than proud of my heritage. I don't tan (aside from a bit of warming in the sun by the pool because I like how it feels), I don't want to inject my already full lips, and I have a butt, and hips. I'm a curvy girl, so shove that argument up where the sun don't shine.
I have seen women black, white, Indian, Japanese, etc, that have been gorgeous and ones that are ugly as sin. White women tan, and black women straighten and highlight their hair, Indian women want to look lighter (because their culture has believed fair skin to be of higher class for centuries) as do several of the Asian cultures, African culture prizes beautiful dark, rich skin, and the Middle East like a very specific mid-tone. Why exactly are we making this all about skin color? Why is it that every time someone mentions color women attack each other?
I've read from many forums now that "black women age better, and are this and that, and that white women just want to be like them so we tan" and in response "that black women with their fake hair and nail..." etc.
Why don't we as women just stop fighting over who is better? Shouldn't we share and try to bring each other up, not down? We all have something beautiful, and while you should be proud of who you are, why can't we share? Why can't naturally light people show others how to make fair skin look good, and darker skinned cultures, share tips for tanning well, hair tips, etc? Why is it that we have to constantly attack each other, and put each other down?
Why is it that there are so many posts about "How no butt, thin-lipped, flat chested, skinny, white girls just need plastic surgery and to tan" and "black girls keep lightening their skin, and straightening their hair, and are jealous of white girls?" I refuse to believe any of it. We are all beautiful, and we all cross racial lines. There are curvy white girls, petite black girls, busty asians, etc.
Has anybody else noticed this trend lately? This attack? What is to be done? How do we start respecting each other rather than wallowing in ignorance? | | you are 100% correct. something does need to be done about this. i mean men stick together, why can't women. i think alot of women are insecure in who they are and try to transfer their feelings onto others. one correction though, not all black women wear weave in their hair and white women have been wearing fake nails like forever. so don't stereotype us. all cultures need to embrace each others differences and stop putting each other down cause if God wanted everyone to look the same He would have made us that way. stop worrying what other people say about you. i have worked with alot of people from different races and they all wanted the same thing-to be loved and accepted. |
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