Is it uncommon for a gay male to not be into oral and anal sex? Most partners I meet are disappointed when they find out I'm not into either. I'm attracted to guys for sure, but not oral/anal. |
| Its about the love for you partner not just for sex. |
What to do in order to have good safe oral and anal sex? I would like to know how can i make oral and anal sex fun and interesting for both me and my boyfriend..any good tips to make it an do it good. so both of us can feel good an satisfied. |
For oral sex, the best tip is to use your eyes. Use them to follow your partner's reaction, and when you see something that is working, do more of that. :-) Also use your eyes to smile, especially when your partner has reached orgasm. Show that you love doing this, because you love the person.
For anal, the answer is to prepare yourselves fully before getting involved. You cannot just jump into anal sex. The anal area is not as prepared for thrusting as a vagina, so you need to do 3 things. 1) Stretch when you are in the bath. First one finger, then two. Do not put a penis in there until you can get two fingers in and out easily. 2) Use tons of lube. You should use *way* more than you think, and it goes inside you and all over him. And the rule is "way too much is almost enough." 3) Slow, slow, and slower. If your boyfriend has seen porn movies, he probably thinks he can thrust there in the same way he would in your vagina. NO!! It will feel like he is splitting you in two. Those people are paid actors, and they are acting out male fantasies, not real life issues for women. He has to go very, very slowly, especially at first. That's hard for a lot of guys, but there is no way around it.
Keep in mind that some women never learn to enjoy anal. In fact, that's true of a lot of women. Studies have shown that about 1/3 of all women under 30 have tried it, but only one in 8 still include it as a regular part of their sex lives, and only one in 15 of those women prefer it. The rest do it only as a gift to their male partners, and as I said, most women who try it give up on it. So, don't expect too much, and if it is something you can't deal with, your boyfriend will have to understand.
Oh, one more thing: he should wear a condom for anal. This has nothing to do with STD's. There are natural bacteria in your anus that are harmless where they are but can cause an infection in his penis. Even worse, if you go from anal to vaginal sex without carefully cleaning off, those bacteria can grow out of control in your vagina. (Vaginal first and anal later is not a problem for you, but it still puts him at some risk.)
Have fun, honey. Love each other and pleasure each other, but always remember to be safe. |
Is a girl still a virgin if she has had only anal/oral? I always wondered. If a girl has NEVER had vaginal sex but only anal or oral, does that mean she is no longer a virgin? Or in other words, chaste? I know hymen doesnt determine virginity, but vaginal sex does right? |
| In my opinion, anyone who has had a sexual encounter, even if it did not involve intercourse, is not a virgin any more. This applies to men and women. |
Would you give oral to your husband? Would you do anal with your husband? I always considered oral and anal "dirty". Is it different if you are married? |
Attitudes towards sex do not change with marriage. You get married you emerge from the ceremony exactly the same person you were before.
IMO nothing is wrong or dirty that a married couple mutually decide to engage in. Sex can be a simple and vanilla as they desire or as wildly experimental as they wish.
Sometimes love can motivate a person to move outside of their comfort zone ot please the one they love but not always. |
Are married Mormon couples allowed to have oral or anal sex? Are married Mormon couples allowed to have oral or anal sex? Somebody told me they are not supposed to or they will be denied to heaven. I am just very fascinated by this religion and am curios. |
The church has never said anything on that. I think the rules are that if one spouse is uncomfortable with it then don't do it, nobody should be forced to do a sexual act that they don't want to do.
Why would you want to??? **shudders** |
If i have oral or anal sex am i a virgin still? I'm 15 but wanna have sex but keep my virginity if I do anal or oral with my gf am I still a virgin? |
Technically, yes.
Have fun. Lots of fun.
Sin |
Do people who think gay sex is immoral oppose straight couples who engage in oral or anal? a question for people who thing gay sex is abnormal because they argue sex is only for 'reproduction'.
What do you think of straight couples who engage is sex for pleasure, and do oral on each other? Should that be outlawed? I know a man who thinks gay sex is immoral- ye he boasts how he loves to give anal to his girlfriend. Please explain the logic... |
| They are hypocrites who want the whole world to follow their ways... |
From a Catholic perspective, is oral and anal sex wrong within a marriage? If a couple takes part in oral and anal sex there is no possibility of conceiving a guy. |
| well if oral and anal sex are the only modes practised that we be considered contraceptive behavior and that is a sin. Oral and anal sex is fine if used for foreplay. |
What do you think of oral/anal sex? Just wondering what you thought of oral or anal sex? Do you know anything bad/good about them? |
| I like giving and getting oral. I like giving anal for different reasons. It feels good and is something taboo so there is something else there that you do not get to do very often. My gf and I have tried anal on myself and I think it feels good but am not in love with it. If I had a girl that was really into it then I would let her, but it is not something that I am asking for. |
What is the difference between oral temperature and anal temperature taking? What is the difference between oral temperature and anal temperature taking |
You can use a regular thermometer, like the kind you can use in your mouth. They are more accurate for determining your temperature, but are usually used for guyren under 5.
"The rectal temperature is the most exact way to know if your guy has a fever. A temperature taken in the rectum is the closest way to finding the body's true temperature. Rectal temperatures run higher than those taken in the mouth or armpit (axilla) because the rectum is warmer. The normal rectal temperature of a guy is between 97° and 100° F (36.0 to 37.7° C)."
You can read more about it here:
www.healthtouch.com/bin/EContent_…
"Generally, a normal temperature is approximately 98.6 °F when taken orally (by mouth). Temperatures taken in the ear or in the rectum typically run 1° higher."
www.timexhealthcare.com/feature2.… |