Is it wrong for me to fantasize about spanking women? This has been my biggest turn-on: dreaming about getting a cute gal's jeans down and spanking her--before we really get intimate. |
It's not wrong to fantasize about anything.
You'll also find that this is one of the more popular fantasies shared by men and women alike.
You should find someone who wants to do that with you and try it.
I love a good spanking. |
What do you think about the current trend of women spanking adult boyfriends and partners...? I'm particularly interested in hearing from us victims, because we are a silent epidemic, too embarrassed to talk about it...but you women who are slapping us and putting us over your knees are welcome to tell us what's going on and coming off and why..... |
| I'm 49 years old and have been married to a wonderful woman since we were both 26. She spanks me when I need to be punished, motivated, or helped to focus. It does me a world of good (just as getting spanked by my parents did), and I'm not a 'victim'. You should realize that everyone behaves improperly sometimes, and some form of punishment can help a great deal. Spanking happens to be one form that works very well for some of us. |
Men Spanking Women more Natural than Women Spanking Men? I don't want to go into the details about what led me to ask this but do you think that it's more ridicules to see a grown woman spanking a grown man, than it is to see a grown man spanking a grown woman? I think so and I am a woman! The thought of seeing a woman trying to put a man over her knee and spank him just makes me laugh and just doesn't look normal. But I can picture a man putting a woman over his knee and spanking her, it seems more natural. Men are bigger and stronger and instinctively more dominant. Even when you look at old movies, it's always the guy putting the girl over his lap and spanking her, you never see it the other way around, I think there's a reason for that. Now I'm not supporting domestic abuse at all, besides spanking IS NOT abuse, but let's just say my husband has had to put me over his knee once or twice for a "talk" about my attitude, but I couldn't and wouldn't imagine me taking him and putting him on my lap and spanking him, it's too weird and kinda grosses me out, it would just emasculate him. And I at least felt more feminine when I was over his knee. Any way what do you think, just picture it. And I'm not talking about "sexual" spankings either, real ones for punishment. What's more ridicules to you? |
Sounds like you are comfortable with stereotypes and gender roles. While it isn't my thing by a long shot, I can live and let live. So while to me spanking between adults isn't "natural", it's perfectly fine if you find it to be so for yourself. It is your life and your marriage and you can handle both (or let your husband handle them, rather) any way you want. Yes, men spanking women is more common and therefore seems more normal to people like you, but if a person tries to be objective and open minded? They wouldn't see it the same way.
As for what is more ridiculous to me, I can not decide. Both for instances are something I would not only refer from trying, but also don't enjoy the thought of. Maybe it's the fact that I am 100% for equal treatment and don't follow gender roles. Maybe it's because I am generally too dominant to find submitting to a man "natural", let alone letting him spank me for my "attitude". Maybe it's because I associate spanking with inappropriate punishment for guyren. Or maybe it's because a grown man spanking a grown woman borders on abuse if the woman doesn't want or enjoy it.
Either way, spanking is ridiculous to me in general. Not natural, not normal. Just ridiculous. |
Women spanking guys when they cheat? Justified? .? Would you spank a guy for cheating on you, flirting with other women?Or for any other reason, i.e. messing up at work, being rude etc; etc?
Guys spank women sometimes, so is it justified the other way around?
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| lol no...that's silly. Guys spank women in the bedroom so to speak, it's not to discipline them. I wouldn't spank a guy for cheating but I break up with him immediately and slap the shyt out of him... |
Is it weird to enjoy being spanked? Are there guys out there that like spanking women? It really turns me on. I know it's a fetish but I feel strange that I crave it. I met a guy online that wants to meet and spank me but is that a good idea? It's not like I want just a playful slap on the behind but a really hard spanking. I do have a bf but I know that he really isn't into doing it. He'll spank me a bit during sex but it's not the same. |
| When the sex turns rougher, I find mild spanking to be a huge turn on myself. |
Spanking women good or bad? I have this thing where I imagine spanking girls whenever I see a woman's bottom. I'm not a psycho. I like and respect them as much as anybody, but in bed if she agrees, I enthusiastically put her naked bottom over my knees and spank her (with a hand only though). I try to get myself out of this Habit. But I still cannot resist. I feel a bit bad afterwards. Should I fight this or it's okay as long as there is an understanding between partners. |
| If there is a mutual understanding then don't worry about it. Some women will enjoy it, whereas others will not. Good luck. |
Are any women into spanking men while wearing their lingerie, caught in the panty drawer so to speak? I truly wish I didn't like this, I feel like a total freak and the older I get, I'm tired of denying myself these pleasures |
| OMG, you just describe my favorite thing! Spanking crossdressers! Too bad I'm taken. :-( But rest assured, there are a lot of men out there like you. And there are women who like them. |
What do you think of men spanking women? ( Like on I Love Lucy show ) I think it is ridicules.? I know friends of mine that is what there relationship is, I just can not stand a comtroling person in a relationship. I am just wonering what others thimk. |
| i think that spanking is just one more way for men to put women in the subservient position that ensures their power.any guy who gets off on being powerful over a woman should seek help . as women we should be holding our men to a higher standard . popular culture should not dictate the norm. |